All I want for Christmas is to fit in my skinny jeans! Get to your Prime with me.

Many of us have New Years goals to have a healthier life stlyle lose a few pounds etc. Macaroni Kid wants to start a Biggest Loser Program with Go Prime! Starting the 11th of January. We will have Big Prizes (more details to follow in the next few weeks) I need to know who wants to join with me in this program! 

Click here to read more about the programs. 

Macaroni Kid has gotten Prime to Participate in the Biggest Loser Program! They are giving anyone who signs up 25% off on all the program packages and product with discount code mackid. Their personal trainer will come and meet with us to kick off the Biggest Loser! They will also be be donating some of the BIG PRIZES!!!

As many of you know I lost just over 50 pounds over a year ago. I have been able to keep most of it off. Then I went back to work full time, was stressed and I found myself coping with chocolate. This went on for a few months and my cute skinny jeans stopped fitting!!!

Then a good friend of mine talked to me about Go Prime. A eating and life style change that is 90% effective. Once he explained to me how it works I had to try. 

Click here to see website for details.

I have been doing the Prime Package Program for 4 weeks and I am excited to say that my Christmas wish came true today! I was able to fit into my skinny jeans and I have lost 8 lbs in  4 weeks. It was so easy! I still get to eat treats once a week. There was allot of food that I love and I never feel hungry. They have personal coaching and team coaching. I like this because it helps me stay motivated and accountable. 

Don't take my word for it join me this next year and lets make a healthy life style change together! We can all get into those skinny jeans! If you are interested please make a comment below and I will reach out to with all the details. Get your friends to join and the person who refers the most friends will get a 50% discount. 

I'm excited to Go Prime with you!

Mark Your Calendar for our annual Noon Years Eve Party at Boondocks

“Stale Mate or Stalemate Marriage?”

Macaroni Kid December 2015, Blog 

“Stale Mate or Stalemate Marriage?”

The one simple secret in marriage that makes all the difference. “C’mon!” You might be saying to yourself. “Really? One thing?” Yeah… Really.  The problem is that people really aren’t trained for marriage. Think about it. What did you have to do before you got your drivers license? You had to take a class and pass it before you could get your drivers permit. You had to prove to the DMV that you could handle the responsibility and could navigate the roads safely. Compare that with what you did to get a marriage license. All you had to do was be a legal adult and have 45 bucks! Seriously! That’s it. No training, and no test. So, unfortunately we aren’t being trained on how to be married. We can get married. That’s the easy part. Most of the population can do that without any training at all. But almost 50% end in divorce. Hmmm… that tells us that something is wrong with the system. If 50% of a teachers class failed in school, we would be wondering about the teacher. 

So, what happens in a normal marriage that can really cause problems? First, we fall in love. Dorothy Tennov, in her book “Love and Limerence” calls the feeling of “being in love”  “limerence.” The problem starts when we think the same amount of effort we put in falling in love should just keep happening naturally. We think that staying in love would be easy, like surfing the wave of “limerence.” Limerence is a chemical cocktail that gets people to fall in love. There aren’t any sustaining nutrients in this delicious cocktail. We do the loving things because we are in love. Think about that for a second. You would stay up all night. Drive for hours. Go completely out of your way because you were in love. Then when the wave of limerence runs ashore the feelings fade and couples begin to notice they aren’t feeling “in love” anymore and start wondering why. At this time, most people begin noticing the things their spouse has stopped doing, and that is where they stop in their exploration for why things are different. They say to themselves and even to other people, “if my spouse would just ______ it would make our relationship better.” And this is the number one problem that destroys marriages, “Looking to the other person to make changes.” So what is the solution, Look in the mirror to start making changes. If both people do this, the relationship is going to soar like a rocket. If only one or none, then the relationship is going to fizzle like a dud. So… who are you going to look to to make your marriage more amazing? I’ve developed this really cool tool to help keep couples on track its called the check in. There are 4 simple questions to keep the couple focused on what they can personally do to make the marriage more amazing.  Email me at emilharker@gmail.com if you want it. Just include the word “Check In” in the subject line. 

Emil Harker MS LMFT Is a widely respected marriage expert and communication specialist. His new book “You Can Turn Conflict Into Closeness” teaches you the nuts and bolts of communication during difficult times to actually turn conflict into closeness. You can learn more about Emil at EmilHarker.com or get a free copy of his ebook for a limited time (2 weeks) by clicking this link. 
 https://emilsmarriageclub.activehosted.com/form/31 

Emil will be a special guest on KUTV Channel 2 Fresh Living program Wednesday December 30th where he will be introducing his brand new program “Emil’s Marriage Club – The ultimate marriage enrichment program with a surprising twist.” Make sure you tune in!